A good lover can complete you and make you feel alive.
And just like that, a good group of friends too can motivate you and
cheer you up. But on the other hand, a few bad friends can drag you into
the pits or ruin your life too. Choose your friends carefully and
always make sure that the friends closest to you are the ones that can
make life better for you, and not worse.
Here is a list of ten types of friends that you really need to
avoid. These toxic friends may seem like fun at times or even feel like
thrilling risk takers, but when the crap hits the fan, it’ll be you
under it.
#1 The Cheater
Many friendships have been crumpled and crushed because a best friend
hit on a friend’s romantic partner. To avoid making best friends with
this type, avoid the sneaky flirts, the sweet talkers and generally,
people who try flattering you and talking like you mean the world to
them. You’d be better off with someone who’s more true and down to earth
with their claims.
#2 The Competitor
Any kind of competition is healthy in every relationship but when
claws start to come out and things get extremely competitive between
friends, things can get very ugly.
#3 The Leech
A friend who constantly borrows your stuff or money or depends too
much on you is one that definitely needs to be avoided. No one wants a
one sided relationship. If all your friend does, is take from you,
without giving anything back in the friendship, there’s no point in
being friends anymore. If they’re looking for one, tell them to take a
one way trip out of your life.
#4 The Copycat
Imitation is considered the sincerest form of flattery, but a friend
who looks or behaves like your photocopy machine can be very scary.
#5 The Shrink
All of us confide in our friends and ask for advice, but when your
best friend starts acting like a paid shrink who always picks flaws in
your life or relationships, it can get very annoying and depressing.
#6 The Selfish Friend
This type of friend can go any length for their benefit, but behave passively when you ask for help.
#7 The Wild Child
Dangerous and unstable is how you define this type. You usually get
in trouble or always end up having to save your friend from trouble.
#8 The Whiner
This type of friend is never satisfied with anything they have, and
they spend all their time whining and grumbling about how the world is
so darn unfair to them. Stay away!
#9 The Mood Killer
This friend intentionally or unintentionally kills the mood as soon
as they enter into a conversation with you. They always seem to find a
flaw in anything you do or have, be it your clothes or your love life.
They are like the lone dark cloud hovering over you on a sunny day.
Nothing positive ever comes out of their mouth. They are never short of
sarcastic comments or depressing thoughts.
#10 The Swinger
This friend is partially bonkers because their mood swings from being
nice to totally snappy in seconds without any provocation. And this
friend may just use you like a punching bag to express their feelings,
be it frustration or happiness.
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